BEING IN THE LOVE FLOW
A 4-months group and mentoring program for women who are ready for the connected loving relationship they’ve always longed to have
You shouldn’t have to struggle to experience that loving connection you really want
You have it all (almost). At least, that’s what it looks like from the outside. Nobody really knows how your love life is struggling. You feel like you should be able to figure this out on your own, but it’s not happening. You are full of resources and yet, you can’t make your relationship work. You don’t understand why. This is frustrating at best, shameful at its worst…
Deep inside, you wonder if you’ll experience again, or for the first time, the connected, solid and real relationship your soul longs for. You either doubt yourself to be able to achieve this, or you wonder if you’re with the right partner…
How do I know that? Because I’ve been there, feeling all of the above… And it SUCKS. Big time. I had to unlearn everything I thought about loving relationships to get back to love.
Learn to create a fulfilling, nurturing and loving relationship while attracting the best in your man
Our cultural Myth of Romantic Love is setting us up to FAIL in relationships. No wonder so many of us struggle to find the perfect match, let alone to keep the love, connection and passion alive for the long run!
I remember being so desperate to find my one and only…. All my friends were in a relationship, except me. I couldn’t find any man I felt aligned with. Those I was attracting were either weirdos, emotionally unavailable or not my type at all. And on top of that, the awesome guys were either in a relationship or plainly uninterested. These experiences made me feel inadequate, unattractive and incompetent in love.
Despite acting like an assertive and independent woman, I was feeling shaky in my self-confidence. I was frustrated. I thought I was the problem. Shame was growing in me like a rampant cancer. So I decided I would stay single and only have love affairs here and there, as I was obviously too flawed and unloveable to attract a real man.
Years passed and I met this lovely man. Aligned with me, solid in his sense of worth and yet not arrogant. Handsome, warm, funny, loving. On top of that, he had this indescribable charisma, you know, that little something that lights you up from the inside…. He had everything my heart wanted! This encounter really took me bu surprise. At that time, I had NO IDEA how I could have attracted such a perfect match (in retrospect though, it’s crystal clear!)…
We ended up being together, I felt more beautiful and loveable than ever and the shame was gone! I was finally rocking this love game I thought! We were the perfect couple, perfectly happy, building our perfect life! I was over the moon!!
Until years passed and it wasn’t perfect anymore. Our relationship bliss was gone and we felt like two strangers fighting backstage after. the show. With two kids and a mortgage. Not really my definition of perfection… Oddly enough, the more I tried to fix our relationship, the more I felt unseen, unloved and unheard…. And the more my man was running away from us. I felt deeply angry and resentful. The same feelings of shame, inadequacy and unattractiveness I experienced in my single years resurfaced. Yuk. So I started blaming him for everything that wasn’t working. I started to doubt he was the love of my life.
I was in a very difficult spot to just leave him, and yet, I couldn’t see how to reconcile our relationship…
Then one night, I had that mystical dream where I heard a voice saying : “House of Love”. It was the weirdest and most cryptic advice I ever received. And yer, it rang TRUE. I knew it was the answer I was looking for to get out of my relationship mess.
With sacred devotion, and honestly, out of slight despair, I deciphered the message and realized I’d been wrong in how I approached my loving relationships since the beginning. The House of Love was a metaphor for me. “I” was the House of Love. Meaning, I had to focus on cultivating love inside myself, without expecting my man, or any other, to do it…
OMG! Little did I know then that following this guidance would lead me to up level my love game! And the change has been nothing short of spectacular…
I learned to love differently, myself and others. I learned to tame my inner pitbull, to communicate with a loving and open-heart and to be heard. I learned to be a woman differently, to own my flavour of femininity, to show up with a compelling energy with my man and to be seen. I reconnected with my sensuality, my beauty, my essence, and everything I had denied before. I learned to give love and to receive it with Grace.
I learned to use my power instead of controlling and forcing things to get what I want. I learned to deeply and unapologetically respect myself and set boundaries instead of pleasing and settling for less. The opinions of others don’t have the grip they used to have on me. The old me died and a loving and powerful version of myself came to life.
All of this (and more) shifted my loving relationship 180 degrees.
I feel deeply connected to him, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. I feel seen, respected and deeply loved. Our relationship is solid, loving and benevolent. He cherishes me every single day. We’re able to communicate without drama and conflicts are at their lowest levels, despite the fact that we’ve been through many changes and stressful situations over the past years. On top of that, our lovemaking has evolved into something profound, a connection beyond everything I had experienced before, spiking our levels of pleasure and satisfaction to the roof.
I’m telling you, this process is the bomb, and I can’t wait to teach you what I’ve learned!
Learn how to keep or rekindle the love, connection and passion alive for the long run
You can master loving relationships
We’re told we have to be perfect to attract AND keep a man, making us think we’re flawed when it’s not happening.
Romantic Culture also tells us that our happiness depends on our partner, and that his happiness depends on us.
I’m here to testify : THIS is the root cause of most conflicts and relationship pain.
It’s not you. It’s not the men. It’s the pleasing, conditional, Romantic Love culture.
And without the shadow of a doubt, I can guide you out of that, so you too can experience the kind of relationship your soul has longed for all your life…
You can have that man that kisses and hugs you lovingly every day and that looks at you as if you’re the most cherished woman on earth, without the need to be someone else OR lowering your expectations about what’s possible
You can learn to be a woman differently, to own your flavour of femininity, to show up with a compelling energy with a man (or your man) and to be fully seen confidently. You can be yourself AND experience the most passionate and nurturing relationship
You can express yourself with power and love, dismantling drama and preventing conflicts from escalating. You can be in a place where courageous conversations are accepted as part of the ride instead of being dreaded, and you can feel competent and solid in your ability to handle them lovingly, without being a pitbull or a doormat
You can up level your love game and initiate change in your current relationship, without ever taking on the responsibility to change your partner
You can feel more attractive and loveable than ever before, deeply grounded in your own magnificence and value, radiating with grace and self-confidence, without ever being arrogant, “having to fake it” or being affected by what others think of you
You can attract the best in your man, create the kind of love your soul has always longed for AND trust in your ability to keep the connection, passion and fire burning in the long run, even on bumpy days
You were born to love and be loved
Open heartedly
Unconditionally.
Without suffering.
That’s why I created this program. To help you remember how…
Forget everything our culture has taught you about relationships and uplevel your love game with…
BEING IN THE LOVE FLOW
Align your energy, actions and beliefs to create a trustworthy, real and solid relationship where you feel loved, respected and seen for who you are AND solid in your ability to make it work long term
Master your emotions and don’t let them use you anymore
Communicate from a place of power and loving kindness
Learn how to identify what’s true for you and how to trust it
Set healthy boundaries and stop the unconscious pleasing behaviours without being a “bitch”
Learn to give and receive love in a healthy way
Recognize, honour and activate your innate beauty and radiance without feeling like you’re outshining others
Strengthen and heal your self-esteem and self-worth
BEING IN THE LOVE FLOW
A 4 months group and mentoring program to bring you from STRUGGLE AND FRUSTRATION to FULFILLMENT AND SUCCESS in your love life
In this program, you’ll be personally guided and mentored by me on your own path of success towards a fulfilling and nurturing love life! Here’s how :
Individual work
You’ll work individually on the video Modules. Each Module will be delivered in a video format so you can watch them at your own pace or rewatch the content as often as you want. We will have one Introduction week, then we will spend 2 weeks on each Module, for a total of 6 Modules. One week of Pause/Catch up is included mid-program, as well as a 2 weeks Integration support period post-program
Modules 1 to 4 are Foundational and will each focus on one pillar of the Love Flow Framework. Modules 5 and 6 will push up a notch your learning and implementation. This is where you’ll get to play in real life even more and experience magic!
You’ll also have a Journal with prompts and coaching questions that we’ll use throughout the program. You’ll want to keep it handy, as it will act as your intimate companion and clarity partner
Coaching & Mentoring
You’ll get 6 group calls (one per Module), in which I’ll answer your questions and coach you around the implementation of what you’re learning
You’ll get 6 Fire Ceremony calls (one per Module) to release any blockages and burn your old ways/beliefs AND to celebrate your evolution and change
I’ll be in our private Mighty Networks group 3-5 times/week to answer questions in between our coaching calls and to do extra teaching as needed
You’ll receive 2 Shamanic Energy Healing session (performed by me) to clear any energetic blockages, ancestral patterns and cords that may be preventing you from experiencing the most loving and nurturing relationship with your man
Community Support
You’ll be evolving in a small (8 max), benevolent community of like minded women who care for one another, celebrate their successes and support each other through tough times. I’ll be leading this group, online and live, making sure it’s a safe space where transformation happens.
To support your progress even more, we’ll have two Monthly group Fire Ceremonies (Releasing & Celebration) that I’ll lead, where magic happens. These ceremonies are designed to support you healing and your transformation throughout the program. They are very powerful to remove blocks and resistance, as well as anchoring your transformation into your whole being for integration.
I designed this program so you won’t be left alone, figuring everything out on your own! Personalized attention is one of my super powers, even in a group setting.
What you’ll learn :
• Four Foundational Modules
PLUS
• Two specialized Modules
Also included
• A Welcoming process
where you’ll get to meet all the women from our class and where we create the space of our community. We’ll have a group Welcome Call where we all get to know each other, as well as set the tone and intentions for our journey together. You won’t want to miss it!!
• A Celebration Ritual
where you’ll join the women of our class for a Celebration at the end of the program. This Ritual is intended to celebrate your greatness, your wins and your transformation! It’s a moment of joy and integration and also the closing of our time together. You’ll want to be there!!
• A 2-Weeks Post-program Support
where you’ll get additional support and coaching in implementing what you’ve learn with yourself and into your relationship. I’ll host one Q&A call per week to make sure you’re good to go on your own and that your transition from mentoring to “real-life on your own” is as smooth as possible.
All of this for
4 498$ USD*
* Monthly payments available. A 500$ deposit to secure your spot is required upon registering. You will then be charged 4 monthly payments of 999,50$ USD. Contact me at info@isacote.com to request this option.
Who is this program for?
This program for you if…
You’re in a struggling relationship with a partner that seemingly doesn’t want to change (or work on their relationship), and you seek to solve your problems so you can feel in love and connected with him again
You’re in a struggling relationship and you are unsure if you should stay or not with your current partner
You’re in a “correct” or “average” relationship, but want to uplevel your fulfillment, connection and overall feeling of love with your partner
You want to create a long-term, solid, real, connected, trustworthy and fulfilling relationship with a healthy partner that sees, respects and loves you fully for who you really are, no façade
If you long to be seen, heard and respected for the woman you truly are, and you seek to share a connected and fulfilling relationship with on another level with your partner, this program is for you
You are willing to put in the work to get results. No implementation, no results
This program is NOT for you if…
If you’re looking for quick fixes
If you’re not willing to face your reality and take responsibility
If you have a victim mentality
If you’re looking for a therapist
If you’ve had deep emotional trauma
If you’re cynical
If you’re not willing to put in the work and commit to your growth
If you’re not looking for a long-term, committed relationship
You can thrive in your loving relationship, even if you’ve had bad experiences in the past OR if your current relationship is worse than it’s ever been
Being in love doesn’t have to be complicated
Our culture has trained us for unhappiness and disappointment in love
Let’s change that!
Say goodbye to the old way of being in love. Learn to embrace your Love Flow and see the magic happen in your love life. You have that power. I’ll teach you how to harness it and make the best out of it. You’ll be mind blown.
Hi, nice to meet you, I’m Isa!
Even before becoming a Relationship Coach, people turned to me for relationship advice. I’ve always been a go-to person for love and life struggles. I’m a natural problem solver for relationships.
What helps even more is that throughout my love life, I’ve faced many hardships. As a single, I struggled to even believe I was loveable enough to be loved by a handsome and loving man. I felt ugly and shaky in my worth, even though I acted like an independent and confident woman!
And, in my current relationship of 24 years with my man, I’ve been through many struggles that caused me to feel ten thousand miles away from him. From different parenting views to boundary issues with my own parents and my in-laws, co-owned business failure, debt and a complete life crisis, it’s been easy to lose sight of each other.
At our lowest time, I felt unseen, unloved, disrespected (and don’t get me wrong, I too, was behaving in an unloving and disrespectful manner). The path I followed to get back to love has become Being in the Love Flow, this 4-months group program for women in a relationship.
I’ve been a kindergarten and elementary teacher, a mother at home, a co-owner of a failing agricultural business before I finally embraced my calling to become a Coach. Lately, we packed everything and moved to Mexico with our two teens and our cats! We couldn’t be happier!
Enrollment details
4 Months of guided learning, coaching and implementing
4 Core Modules + 2 Modules tailored for Women in a Relationship AND 2 Modules tailored for Single Women
1 Welcome Call to set the tone and get to know each other
A private Mighty Network Group for Questions and interactions between the calls
6 Coaching/Q&A calls (1 per module)
6 Fire Ceremony calls (1 per module)
A Celebration Ritual to close our time together
2 Shamanic Private Energy Healing sessions (to be used within the 4 months of the program)
A 2-weeks Post-program Support
Access to the material for as long as the program exists AND to any future upgrades and additions to it
Feel blissfully in love again!
Be a part of this transformative and intimate group Coaching program to get the healing and the loving relationship your heart longs for...
Don’t do this alone! Join us!!
4 498 USD*
* Monthly payments available. A 500$ deposit to secure your spot is required upon registering. You will then be charged 4 monthly payments of 999,50$ USD. Contact me at info@isacote.com to request this option.
Frequently Asked Questions
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I designed this program to be highly effective for a group setting. It’s more like a mentoring program where you learn AND implement. Because, let’s be honest, information without integration is just that, information, whereas information that is integrated is wisdom. That’s what I want for you. Real life integration of your learnings.
This program is not designed to be done alone without any support (although you can choose to do so but I don’t recommend it). Being witnessed, recognized, held and seen in all our rawness in a safe and compassionate container is the most profound and transformative experience we can have AND it’s absolutely foundational for healing to be effective. As social creatures, we learn better and faster with other people than by ourselves.
It’s true that having the full attention of a coach in 1:1 sessions is very effective, but I think that the Group setting brings something different to the table, something we all crave : community and a sense of belonging, which, in my experience, are very healing.
So, go with what you feel. Check-in with yourself. info@isacote.com If you don’t feel called by a Group program, you can request to do the program privately with me here at info@isacote.com. If you have questions or if you need help to determine if this Group program is a fit for you, send me a DM or an email. I’ll be glad to help you get clarity! :)
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You’ll have access to the material for as long as the program exists and you will benefit from any future upgrades and additions to it. Yay!
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There are no refunds. Make sure you re 100% in and that you read everything before committing. Do your homework and don’t hesitate to email me if your have questions prior to enrolling. You can do so here, at info@isacote.com
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The program is going to be delivered on Searchie. It’s a user-friendly platform in which all the content is searchable, which is awesome for your learning experience. Don’t worry, I made you a Guided Tour video that you can easily access once you’re inside the platform.
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Our calls and ceremonies will take place on Zoom and they will be recorded.
The private Shamanic Healing sessions will also be on Zoom, but they will not be recorded.
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The Releasing Ceremony is to heal and burn the past. This is where you’ll let go of what no longer serves you to clean your energy imprints. You’ll burn your resistance and your blocks away as they show up (they will). You’ll also get coaching on your said resistances and perceived limits if you need to. You’ll feel better and lighter after.
The Celebration Ceremony is to celebrate your wins, your ah-has, your magnificence and the magnificence of the other women in the group as well! Being seen, recognized and celebrated by ourselves and others is very powerful and healing. It strengthens our self-esteem and really anchors it in our bones. It also helps us to be comfortable with the discomfort of receiving and being truly seen.
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Yes, all our calls will be recorded and accessible inside Searchie, our learning platform.
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It’s completely online.
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Not necessarily. It’s not because it’s struggling that it’s the end. Often, it’s just because we’re stuck in a pattern of blaming or with unresolved resentment that our relationship degrades. I help my clients to identify what’s going on and to untangle these patterns so they can feel in love again. That being said, it doesn’t mean that you’ll choose to stay either, but you’ll be crystal clear about what you want and you’ll be able to identify what to do.
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Your relationship will improve in many ways just by shifting your focus from him to you. Although, I can’t guarantee that your partner is gonna change the way you want, and you can’t make him change either. What I can do is teach you how you can change your energy, beliefs and therefore how you show up with him, so he takes responsibility for his part of the relationship and decides what to do for himself with his own free-will.
You’ll learn to express yourself with power instead of force, which creates a safe and peaceful space to be heard and “problem solve” without unnecessary drama. Of course, to get there, you’ll have to participate, to do the exercises and integrate what you learn into your own life. I’m gonna help you with real life integration, but you’ve got to do your part of the job.
Plus, if you find out throughout the program that you’re not in love anymore with him, you’ll get support to deal with the situation.
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I offer this program privately (1:1) upon request. You can email me here at info@isacote.com to get more information on how the Being in the Love Flow (BLF) 1:1 experience would work and the pricing. :)